The secret formula
Someone that reminds me that they love me enough so that I am secure enough to know in deep within the depths of my heart. Tell me how beautiful I am and how attracted you are to me. Compliment me because I wore this outfit to impress you. Hold me tight like you never want to lose me. When we go out, hold my hand like you are proud that I am yours. Tell me how smart I am and how you are impressed with all the things I do. Give me enough attention so that I know, that you know, that I exist. Give me reason to believe in you because I am insecure and I need you to tell me. Feed me all the possibilities. Let me have my way when I am begging for it. Touch me in places where I am insecure and tell me the opposite, despite what I think of myself so that I can take off all my clothes when we have sex. Tell me you think of me. When you see me, smile like you haven’t seen me in months. Kiss me passionately like my lips are the only ones in the world. Miss me and make me feel it. Follow me around like my puppy. When we sleep, hold me like your teddy bear. Play with my hair. Look into my eyes and send me static waves of intense love. When I am mad, hold me and don’t let go. Make me stop, when I am doing something harmful to myself. Be persistent. Give me space when I need it and trust me because I would never intentionally try to hurt you. Help me concentrate when I am doing my homework. Play games with me. Tell me I am sexy out loud so that all my friends hear it. I want to be that couple. The couple that goes clubbing and only has eyes for each other. The couple that is secure with each other. The couple that finishes each others sentences. The couple that everyone invites. The couple the becomes one.
A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves.
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